🛡️ Day 39: Talking to Kids About Difficult Topics (Gender, Media, etc.)
“Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth.” – John 17:17
As Christian parents and homeschoolers, we’re called to raise our children in the truth of God’s Word—but what happens when that truth clashes with the culture they live in?
Children today are growing up in a world where gender identity, sexual morality, media influence, and personal truth are heavily promoted in ways that oppose Scripture. These are not easy conversations—but they are absolutely necessary.
This blog is here to encourage you: you can talk about difficult topics with your kids biblically, confidently, and lovingly. And more than that—you must. This is part of the call to disciple your children and raise them to stand firm in Christ.
👣 Start with God’s Design
Before tackling what’s wrong in the world, we must first teach our children what’s right in God’s eyes.
“So God created man in His own image… male and female He created them.” – Genesis 1:27
God’s creation is good. He made male and female with intention, purpose, and love. He designed marriage, family, and identity. These truths are not random; they are rooted in His character.
When we affirm God’s design from the beginning—our children are better equipped to discern the distortions of truth that come from the world.
❤️ The Gospel: Our Foundation for All Truth
It’s important that our children know why there is confusion in the world today: it’s not just misinformation, it’s sin.
“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” – Romans 3:23
Sin brought brokenness into every part of life—including our understanding of gender, identity, and morality. But the gospel is the good news that Jesus came to redeem and restore what sin has broken.
When our kids see that the real issue is the heart, and that Jesus is the only solution, they’ll have both compassion and clarity when faced with worldly messages.
📺 Equipping Our Kids to Discern Cultural Lies
Today’s culture is loud. It comes through TV shows, social media, books, classroom discussions, cartoons, and even through peers and family.
But God’s Word is louder—if we teach our kids how to listen.
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” – Romans 12:2
We must train our children to compare every message they receive with the Bible. Ask questions together like:
- “What does God say about this?”
- “Is this honoring to Him?”
- “Does this align with Scripture or go against it?”
Encourage them to be like the Bereans in Acts 17:11, who examined everything in light of God’s truth.
🌈 Talking Biblically About Gender, Sexuality, and Media
Here are a few key topics to address intentionally with Scripture:
1. Gender Identity
- Truth: God created two genders: male and female (Genesis 1:27).
- Error in Culture: Gender is a feeling or social construct.
- How to Discuss: Emphasize that our bodies and identity are part of God’s good plan, not something we create ourselves.
2. Sexuality and Purity
- Truth: Sexual intimacy is a gift from God, designed for marriage between a man and woman (Genesis 2:24, 1 Cor. 6:18-20).
- Error in Culture: Any expression of sexuality is valid and should be affirmed.
- How to Discuss: Teach that our bodies belong to God, and we honor Him through purity, self-control, and love.
3. Media Influence
- Truth: We are called to think on things that are pure, lovely, and true (Philippians 4:8).
- Error in Culture: Entertainment is harmless and doesn’t affect us.
- How to Discuss: Help kids filter media through Scripture. Make wise choices together.
🧒 Tailoring Conversations by Age
- Young Children: Focus on God’s creation and design. Use clear, simple terms like, “God made boys and girls,” and “Jesus loves you and made you special.”
- Tweens: Introduce more detail, including God’s design for marriage, purity, and truth. Answer questions patiently.
- Teens: Engage in open, respectful conversations. Let them ask hard questions, but always anchor responses in Scripture.
The goal is to open the door for ongoing dialogue, not just one-time lectures.
🕊️ Responding with Truth and Love
“Instead, speaking the truth in love…” – Ephesians 4:15
Jesus never compromised truth—but He also never withheld love. Model this same balance:
- Speak calmly and kindly, not in fear or anger.
- Remind your children that people who believe differently are still made in God’s image and need Jesus, just like we all do.
- Train them to respond with courage, grace, and humility.
🙏 Practical Ways to Disciple Your Kids Through These Issues
- Start each day with God’s Word—it sets the tone for every other voice they’ll hear.
- Memorize identity Scriptures together: Psalm 139, 1 Peter 2:9, Ephesians 2:10.
- Use media moments (shows, news, etc.) as teachable times.
- Pray together for wisdom and for courage to stand firm.
🧡 Final Encouragement
Talking to your kids about hard topics may feel uncomfortable—but silence will never protect them. Truth will.
You don’t have to have all the perfect answers. You just need to be present, faithful, and rooted in God’s Word. Trust the Holy Spirit to guide you.
“I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.” – 3 John 1:4
📂 Coming Soon: Free Printable Pack for This Topic!
To support these conversations at home, we’ll release a free printable pack after the 90-day series:
✅ “Truth vs. Lies” Cards: Biblical responses to cultural messages
✅ “Who God Says I Am” Poster
✅ Family Conversation Starters
✅ Media Discernment Checklist
✅ Devotion Guide: Guarding Hearts in a Culture of Confusion
📍Download at www.christschooling.com (coming soon!)